People often consider pets to be members of the family, but humans and animals have different ways of showing affection, which can get lost in translation.
If you’ve ever wondered if your pets love you and how they show that love, we have answers from experts. Phyllis Erdman, executive dean for academic affairs at Washington State University’s College of Veterinary Medicine, and Connie Fraser, a small-animal neurology and neurosurgery technician, shared their insights.
PUPPY LOVE
With dogs, Erdman said emotions go “up and down the leash,” meaning dogs can sense people’s emotions, just as humans can for dogs. A dog who senses his person isn’t feeling well will offer comfort, for example by putting his head in their lap as if to say “I’m here for you.”
“They make us happy. Some people question whether dogs smile, but you can see it in the expression on their face,” Erdman said. “You can see it in their eyes.”
Your dog might show you affection by:
Don’t worry. Fido still loves you, even if he:
Some behavior can go either way:
STRONG CAT-TACHMENTS
Cats aren’t vocal around other cats, Fraser said, so when they meow it’s to get their humans’ attention.
When cats rub on you, it emits a pheromone that marks you. Fraser said it means “That’s my person; they’re part of my tribe.”
One sign of affection you can test with a cat is the slow blink. A cat will look at its person and slowly open and close its eyes.
“It’s saying, ‘I’m OK with you’ and asking ‘Are you OK with me?’ ” Fraser said. “Then you blink back and see if they blink back.”
Cats show people affection by:
Also affection (really, we promise):
MAINTAINING EQUINE-IMITY
With horses, Erdman said it’s important to remember they are prey animals, which means they startle easily.
“Prey animals are always aware of their surroundings, anything that gives them a warning that someone is coming,” Erdman said. “Don’t just jump up and startle them.”
A horse might show you affection by:
IS IT LOVE?
Some animal behavior is perceived by humans as being romantic affection; however, it might not always be the cute couple etiquette we think.
According to northamericannature.com, sea otters hold hands with other otters, but it’s not always a public display of affection. Holding hands keeps otter couples and families together and protects them from predators. Sometimes it can be about displaying a relationship status as a male otter will hold hands with his mate to prevent another male from taking his significant otter.
CORNERSTONE OF A RELATIONSHIP
Gentoo and Adelie penguins participate in a ritual that might be familiar to humans. Male penguins pick a smooth, shiny rock to give to a female penguin (although, being penguins, it’s hard for them to get down on one knee). If the female likes the proposal, she will use the rock to start a nest. Then the two will continue to build up a pebble nest for their future offspring, according to oceana.org.
However, it can turn into a soap opera: If a male penguin is unable to find the perfect rock on his own, he will turn to theft.
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